Is it OK for my girlfriend to say things like “don’t worry I’ll punish myself for being wrong” and “I’ll smash my head into the wall when you leave” during and after we’ve had an argument about things that are nothing to do with her mental health? The point i was trying to get across was that I don’t have anyone else to talk to about my personal things, like periods, apart from her but she tells me to stop as it makes her feel “unnecessary” yet we can talk openly about her stomach problems and she tells me whenever she needs to go for a shit?
Sometimes I wonder if our relationship is balanced and fair or if I am compromising more for her than she does for me
A Vegan who never eats meat and a hunter who saves and eats every single part of an animal could both technically claim the moral high ground over those in between.
1) a universe where ABBA doesn’t exist and they’re just making up the songs as they go?
2) a universe where ABBA DOES exist and everyone has rehearsed and memorized all of their songs just in case the situation arises where they might need one?
Nottingham, UK. Winchesters. Girls. Puppies.